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Is Your Undercurrent Running the Show?

“Is Your Undercurrent Running the Show?”

To quote the description from the dictionary “an undercurrent is a hidden opinion, feeling, or tendency often contrary to the one publicly shown” and when I read this, I thought yes that makes so much sense.

We tend to put out into the world how we want people to perceive us or how we feel others expect us to be, but it isn’t always congruent with what is going on within you or who you truly are at your very core, your souls essence.

That is all fine and good until you start to notice it affecting your life and not been able to achieve the things in your life that you truly want and deserve.  So the question remains “is your undercurrent running the show?”

“There is more going on than meets the eye”


One very simple question is going to answer that for you ~ are you receiving the things in your life that you want and deserve?  If the answer is yes then you are all good and your surface and undercurrent are congruent and you can keep doing what you are doing.

If the answer is a resounding NO then there is a gap between what is happening on the surface to what is happening under the surface, aka your undercurrent.

As a Law of Attraction Trainer (yes another hat I wear :)) I teach a three step process to manifesting the things that you want into your life, it is quite simple:

Step 1: Identify Your Desire 

Step 2: Give your desire attention

Step 3: Allow

You can click on the links above to learn more about the process.

Through my own experience what I noticed was there was a step missing, whilst I was attracting great things into my life, they felt a little inconsistent.  This is when I decided to dig deeper and see the cause and of course I came across my undercurrent.

Just like when people place timestamps on their YouTube videos and you can see the little dashes and you can jump to the different parts of the video, it is the same with your past experiences, each of your experiences are like a timestamp and each timestamp can have an affect on your current experience.

Within that current are all the beliefs you hold about yourself, about the world and about what you think is possible.  If you can imagine that say your belief is “I am not worthy” then that belief in and of itself is going to have a huge affect on what you can manifest into your life.

When you are not feeling worthy of something or someone then it would be very hard for you to believe that it is possible and of course that is then the message you are sending out to the universe.  So no surprise that you are not attracting the things into your life that you want and deserve.

So as you can see this missing piece can have a massive affect on your life, so its important to start to look at your beliefs, pull them apart and start to understand where they stem from, so you can then go to work on healing and releasing them from your energetic body.

As you do that you will start to notice that you are able to attract and manifest things, people and experiences into your life very easily.  As easy as thinking about it and bam there it appears right in front of you.

Step 4: Heal and Release

In the podcast episode I shared an energy healing to help you to start to access these beliefs, heal and release them, so you can start to manifest what is you want and deserve.

Nicole Ivens | Empath Counsellor


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ask your angels ep27

Energy of the Week | Ask Your Angels Ep27


Energy of the week for 3rd-9th February 2020

Tune in to your Cosmic Team and Ask Your Angels what do I need?
Pick card 1, 2, 3 or 4.


ask your angels ep27

Your Guidance Revealed

ask your angels ep27

Card 1: I am Gentle

Your guidance starts at 2:00 in the video below.

It is time to embrace your gentle spirit and your sensitivity, I know for a long time this has been something that has felt impossible due to the way our society perceives “normal”.  It is shifting, more and more sensitive souls and introverts are starting to be okay with who they are and this is allowing and giving permission to more and more of us to step out of our little corners.  I always remember many years ago when I was suffering from panic attacks, my psychologist telling me, if I wanted to make friends as an adult, when I was dropping kids at school, look to the opposite corner to where I was hiding and that is where the other introverts would be hiding. (insert laughing emojii) You know what she was right, they were hiding, just like I was.

Enough is enough, its time for all of us to start to step out, accepting who we are, knowing we are just as powerful as our extrovert counterparts.  What is normal anyway?  The angels are also guiding for you to think about how you see an Angel……..are they loud and boisterous?  Of course not, they are quiet, serene, calm but boy are they powerful beings.  The same for you, just because you are quiet and gentle, doesn’t mean you are not powerful, in actual fact the complete opposite.

If you are anything like me, before you utter a word,  you have gone over and over it in your head……come on don’t leave me hanging….I know I am not alone in this.  So when we do speak, boy is it powerful…….where as for a lot of extroverts they just speak what ever comes into their head without a second thought.

I remember reading about an introverted speaker, as soon as he would step on stage, the room would go silent and he would capture the attention of every person in that room.  Was he loud?  No……did he change who he was, to be like his performing extrovert counterpart speakers?  No…..but this in itself was enough for people to stop and pay attention.

It is time for you to start capturing the attention of others around you, use your powerful energy to share your message, whatever that happens to be.

Card 2: I can speak to Mum

Your guidance starts at 5:04 in the video below.

The angels have guided this card may be triggering for some of  you, for a couple of reasons.  1. Your mum may have passed and be in the spirit world and you may be saying well I can’t speak to her (hold that thought).  2. You may not have the best relationship with your mum right now.

What this guidance is about, is the mum of all mums, the most nurturing mother we all know…….Mother Mary…….she is available to each and every one of us…….all you have to do is call her in……….and she will come closer to you, and you will feel her amazing nurturing and caring energy.  (As I mentioned in the video, I have placed an image of Mother Mary below for you to feel her energy).


Another thing to remember too is when was a time where your first thought after feeling hurt or injured was to run to mum, bring that feeling back up, as it is within you, its always been there and it will help you to feel cared for and nurtured.

Now back to #1 where I asked you to hold that thought, if your mum is in the spirit world and you feel well I can’t speak to her, well that isn’t entirely true is it?  You are here with me still, so I know you know I’m going to stretch your beliefs a little.  Your mum is right there just waiting for you to call her in, just like with Mother Mary and as I was talking with a few clients this past week who had also lost their parents, we talked about how love never dies it just changes.  Its about starting to build a different relationship with her, letting go and releasing anything that is causing you to feel distanced from her and getting to know her on a completely new level, which she is in a way, she is just in a different dimension to you right now.

Just remind yourself “I can talk to mum”, in whatever shape or form that takes.


Card 3: I Learn from my Mistakes

Your guidance starts at 9:28 in the video below.

Isn’t this something we always say to children, “this is how you learn, mistakes are your best teacher”, but when is the last time you have given yourself this leeway, reminded yourself of this and let yourself off the hook.  The angels are guiding that you are being way too hard on yourself, judging yourself for things you have done that you deem as mistakes and they are saying “enough is enough!”

Stop the judgement, give yourself a break and reminder “mistakes are your biggest teacher”.  Instead of judging what you supposedly did wrong, what can you learn from it, what can you take away from it and what can you let go?  Holding onto the disappointment, anger or whatever emotion you are carrying is only going to keep you stuck in this viscous cycle of judgement.  Take the responsibility, take the lesson and leave the rest behind.

Remind yourself “I learn from my mistakes”.

Card 4: I Listen to my Dreams

Your guidance starts at 12:07 in the video below.

Your guidance is all about your WHY, where ever you are in your life right now, the job you are doing, the business you are running, what brought you to this place?  We are always very good at the where, how and what, but not always so good at the why.

Your why is your foundation, it is the core reason behind what you are doing right now, even if it doesn’t really feel like it.  As adults we can very easily get bogged down by tasks, responsibilities and burdens but take all that away and all you will be left with, will be your WHY.

For example my WHY is my girls, when my daughter was diagnosed with epilepsy over 5 years ago, my life was sent into a tail spin and I had to shut down my dream and then find a new way to express my why, that brings us to today, doing the work I love, supporting you to find your WHY, whilst still fulfilling my WHY.  My children!

So what is that for you?  What is your true WHY?

The other guidance the angels have for you is that even if the dream you have currently manifested, really isn’t all its cracked up to be, you don’t have to hold on to it.  The universe doesn’t want that for you, your angels don’t want that for you, its okay to let it go and go back to the drawing board.

Make sure you are super specific, ordering exactly what you want, imagine going to a cafe and ordering a milkshake and you get given a strawberry milkshake and you are like, I don’t like strawberry, I want chocolate.  But you didn’t ask for chocolate, you asked for a milkshake and you got a milkshake, even though its not exactly what you truly wanted.

So, your job this week is to listen to your dreams and become super clear on what it is you truly want and how you really want to express your WHY.

This week is very much all about embracing YOU, Your true spirit, Your true feelings and Your true reason for doing what you do.


You can also watch my Video to hear more about each card and the guidance I provided ~ click below

I would love to hear how the guidance resonates for you right now, comment right here on the blog.

You can also subscribe to my YouTube Channel here….so you get notified each time I share new content.


Nicole Ivens | Gold Coast Counsellor


I offer Online Intuitive Readings to provide you with more personal and detailed guidance.  You can learn more and book your Intuitive Reading Here.

Ask Your Angels Ep 19

Energy of the Week ~ Ask Your Angels Ep 19


Energy of the week for 9th-15th December 2019

Tune in to your Cosmic Team and Ask Your Angels what do I need?
Pick card 1, 2, 3 or 4.


Ask Your Angels Ep19

Your Guidance Revealed

Ask your angels Ep19

Card 1:

Your guidance starts at 1:51 in the video below.

STAY OPTIMISTIC – I am being shown that you have been working really hard on yourself, doing the inner work that I talk about, but it is feeling like nothing has changed, you are still the same person.  Your angels are guiding so much is different even if it isn’t showing on the surface just yet, changes also begin within and then appear externally.  A vision they are showing me is of this little cartoon character plowing along in his little tunnel and then he stops just before he reaches his breakthrough, don’t do this, keep going, the changes you have made will soon show up on the outside.

This is a great time to look back over your journals (if you have been journaling of course), and see who were you this time last year, what were you experiencing, what did life feel like back than?  I love doing this, it really reminds me of how far I have come.  Have a listen to the video where I go into more detail.

Card 2:

Your guidance starts at 3:19 in the video below

SIMPLIFY YOUR LIFE – Its time to de-clutter both externally aka your space and internally, both actions will be reflected inside and out.  Have a look around at your space now, is it clear and light or dense and heavy, I can pretty much guarantee it is the latter the fact you chose this card.  So as you start to cleanse your space, you will start to notice your mind feeling light and de-cluttered too.  What you are seeing in your environment is always a sign of what is going on inside for you as well, that is why I love de-cluttering my space, it makes such a huge difference to the heaviness within my mind.

Continuing on from card 1 it is showing the importance of not giving up, but also making space for the new to arrive in your life.

Card 3:

Your guidance starts at 5:12 in the video below

WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS – As our story continues on this week, you are being guided to watch your thoughts, what are you focusing on?  Our thoughts are connected to our feelings which sends out the signal to the universe about what we want in our lives, so what signal are you sending out? There are three words to remove from your vocabulary that are going to help you to shift your focus from what you don’t want in your life to what you do and they are:

If you find yourself slipping back and using these words and essentially focusing on what you don’t want, you are going to use a Vibe Reset:

The vibe reset is: “So what do I want?”.  As you ask this question it is really going to help you to bring your focus back to what you really want in your life, as opposed to worrying about the things you don’t like in your life.

Card 4:

Your guidance starts at 7:27 in the video below

EXPLORE YOUR OPTIONS – Following along with our story aka energy for the week, we have ensured we keep going, then clearing out some space and checking in with your thoughts and now you have a golden opportunity to explore your options.  We are at the perfect time right now, end of a year and end of a decade, you have a blank slate a head of you, a new decade, what do you want?

Think about what you want to experience in this new decade, what do you want to be able to look back on when you reach the end of the next decade and be able to look back and go WOW that was the best decade YET!  Check out the video below where I go into more detail.


You can also watch my Video to hear more about each card and the guidance I provided ~ click below

I would love to hear how the guidance resonates for you right now, comment right here on the blog.

You can also subscribe to my YouTube Channel here….so you get notified each time I share new content.


Nicole Ivens | Gold Coast Counsellor


I offer 1-1 Local & Online Holistic Counselling to support you in Mind, Body & Spirit, Book your Complimentary Discovery Session Here.

How To Increase Your Abundance | Wednesday Wisdom

How To Increase Your Abundance

Would you like to know how to increase your abundance without having to do anything?  Then keep reading!

Abundance has become what I like to call a “Buzz Word”, every second person is talking about it, but how do you actually become more abundant?  Is it something you need to add to your daily | Weekly to-do-list, I hear you saying God I hope not.

Well, I have good news for you, NO there is nothing you need to do, to become more abundant, sounds good right?  Or too good to be true?

Honestly, you can sit where you are right now, not even get up off the couch | chair | bed etc and become more abundant – wait what??  Yes you read that right, there is nothing you need to do, however there is something you need to be.

Are you ready for me to lay it on you?

Abundance is a FEELING!  Read that again…….Abundance is a FEELING!

Yep you are going to have to FEEL, I know I know, that taboo feeling word.  As you start to feel more abundant then the Universe is going to have its to-do-task and will send you more experiences and opportunities to feel more abundant.  Do you see the pattern here………your feelings are your instructions to the universe.

So I hear you saying OK great, but how do I do that?  I have a few tips for you, let’s get into them.

Tip #1 ~ Awareness ~

Start to become more aware of the abundance around you, have a look outside or even better go outside in nature, check out that beautiful tree, look at all its leaves – HELLO Abundance.  It is everywhere around you, as soon as you open your awareness you are going to start to see it everywhere, which is going to increase your feeling of abundance and of course your instruction to the Universe.  Boom!

Tip #2 ~ Feel IT ~

Yes you are going to have to feel it, whether you like it or not.  Feelings are vibrations and vibrations is how the Universe takes it’s cue from you to what it is you want in your life.  You can do all the things you like to bring in more money aka abundance but if you are not feeling it, then the Universe won’t either.

Tip #3 ~ Respect ~

Money isn’t something we particularly respect, its just something we view as a need, what we need to survive here on the Earthly Plane.  While yes that is true, we do need money to survive, it has its own energy (as does everything) and its important to have both your energy and the energy of your money work together congruently.

So a little task for you today – I know I said you didn’t need to do anything – my bad.  Have a look in your hand bag, purse, wallet – how does it look?  Does it look clean and tidy, like you respect it or is it more like a dumping ground.  What energy do you think your handbag, purse, wallet is sending out?

If its more like a dumping ground, then its time to clear it out, making room for you to receive, we always want space to receive more.

As you clean out your handbag, purse, wallet you are not only DE-cluttering the physical you are also DE-cluttering your mind, which in turn changes how you are feeling and Bam the vibration you are sending to the Universe changes.  Hello Abundance!

Click the video below to hear more about How To Increase Your Abundance

Comment below and let me know how this concept FEELS for you!

You can also subscribe to my YouTube Channel here….so you get notified each time I share new content.

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