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Ask Your Angels Episode 12 | Energy of the Week

ASK YOUR ANGELS ~ EPISODE 12

Energy of the week for 21st – 27th October 2019

Tune in to your Cosmic Team and Ask Your Angels what do I need?
Pick card 1, 2, 3 or 4.

Ask Your Angels Episode 12

 

Your Guidance Revealed

Ask Your Angels Episode 12

Card 1:

 

Love – Mother Mary is guiding you to show yourself love this week, its all about self-love, about starting to look at everything through a lens of love.  Your tendency to give yourself a hard time and look at events through a lens of a critic, is only causing you more pain.  Mother Mary wants  you to know as much as you want to do things perfectly, none of us are perfect, we are perfectly imperfect and you did the best you could with what you knew at the time.  As you look at things through the lens of love, your perspective will change and give you a real chance to release this hurt and pain and be able to move forward, knowing you did your very best in that moment.  I talk more about this in the video below, starting at 2:14.

 

Card 2:

Open Your Heart – This card really follows on from card number 1, continuing on with the theme of self-love asking you to open up your heart to love, allowing more love in.  As you start to operate from your heart space everything starts to look a whole lot more rosy and you will feel more in the flow with life, the colours of the world will seem so much more vibrant.  When you are operating from your logic brain, the place of critical thinking, that is where you can really be giving yourself a hard time, I talk more about this in the video below starting at 4:45 – the harm of using your critical thinking on yourself.

Open up your heart space and allow love from the inside out to fill that space, allowing you to feel such love, such care and such nurture coming from YOU to YOU!

Card 3:

Mercy – the theme of self-love is continuing through the cards this week, and this card is no different, oh boy haven’t you been giving yourself a hard time of late.  My lovely you need to back off, and I say that with love, back off yourself.  As Dr Phil would say how is that working for you, giving yourself such a hard time.  Can you imagine if you saw someone else talking to another the way you speak to yourself,  you would come to their aid and telling that person to back the hell off.  So please STOP, stop giving yourself such a hard time, you deserve so much better, you deserve love and you deserve mercy.

I talk more in the video below starting at 8:06, about the importance of being more kind and caring to yourself.

Card 4:

Inner Child – Again the cards follow on, the theme of self-love is continuing and with this card it is all about caring for your inner child, she hears and feels everything.  All those thoughts and all those words are felt so deeply by her, as I talk about in the video below starting at 10:50 imagine a beautiful little face of your inner child, when she hears harsh words, don’t do that to her and don’t do that to yourself.  Speak kind words to yourself and inturn to your inner child, she needs some kindness and love this week (well always), but especially this week.  Give yourself a break, give yourself love and give yourself forgiveness.

 

You can also watch my Video to hear more about each card and the guidance I provided ~ click below

I would love to hear how the guidance resonates for you right now, comment right here on the blog.

You can also subscribe to my YouTube Channel here….so you get notified each time I share new content.

Nicole Ivens | EFT Gold Coast

I offer 1-1 Local & Online Holistic Counselling to support you in Mind, Body & Spirit, Book your Complimentary Discovery Session Here.

Ask Your Angels | Episode 10 | Nurturing Yourself

 

In this week’s episode of  “Ask Your Angels” the theme is  “Nurturing Yourself”

 

In client sessions this week the theme has surrounded “Nurturing Yourself”, the importance of taking care of yourself instead of waiting for others to do it for you.

So this week, lets ask the question “What needs nurturing within me?”

Tune in to your Cosmic Team and Ask Your Angels what do I need?
Pick card 1, 2, 3 or 4.

Nurturing Yourself

 

Your Guidance Revealed

Nurturing Yourself

Card 1:

Devotion – This guidance is all about having a regular routine, which is what devotion is, spending time on something that means something to you.  Your angels are guiding it is all about connection, connection to yourself, your soul and also to your higher power whatever that looks like for you.  In the video below I talk a little more about that connection to yourself, dropping down into your heart space and connecting to that light within you.   Knowing this space is where you will find all you need to know, the guidance that is specific to you and no one else, a reminder that no one outside of you knows what is right for you, only you do.

Card 2:

Father – This guidance for you is all about balancing your masculine and feminine energies, not so much about your birth father or even God.  Its really important to have a balance between the soft feminine energy and powerful masculine energy, I am being shown that you have shut your heart off to the world, putting up a wall to protect yourself.  With what you have experienced this is completely natural, your angels are guiding it is time, time to soften, time to take down the wall bit by bit.  In the video below I share some ways to soften your heart and the importance.

Card 3:

Inner Child – This card says it all, your inner child needs nurturing, she is calling out for love, to be seen and nurtured.  In the video I talk about this in more detail, but it is important to tend to your inner child, allowing her to feel safe, seen and loved.  As a child we can experience situations that leave a mark, a mark that needs to be healed to ensure she doesn’t take the drivers seat and leading your life from a young age, instead of you taking the reigns.   This week you can nurture your inner child by sending her love and remembering she hears and observes everything, your thoughts and your words.

Card 4:

Joy – Your guidance is to bring more Joy into your daily experience, doing the things that light you up, the things that make you laugh.  As adults we can easily forget to do this, to allow Joy in, your angels are guiding you need to give yourself permission, permission to feel joyful, to do the the things that bring you joy and laughter.  It is also a great opportunity to feel expansion of Joy, as you do this it then gives you the capacity to deal with more difficult times in a more in depth and bigger way.  Check out the video below for more guidance on expanding and allowing joy into your daily experience.

 

You can also watch my Video to hear more about each card and the guidance I provided ~ click below

I would love to hear how the guidance resonates for you right now, either comment right here on the blog or on the video over on YouTube.

You can also subscribe to my YouTube Channel here….so you get notified each time I share new content.

Nicole Ivens | EFT Gold Coast

I offer 1-1 Local & Online Holistic Counselling to support you in Mind, Body & Spirit, Book your Complimentary Discovery Session Here.

Healing Your Pain

Healing Your Pain

Life is a series of experiences, some good, some not so good.  With each experience there is a lesson that we are here to learn, lesson or not the pain that comes along with it can be hard to deal with.  In each moment you get to choose what you are going to do with that pain, you can either choose to hold on to it or you can use it as a launching pad ~ to move you forward ~ healing your pain.

Experience after Experience, layer of pain after layer of pain, you start to feel weighed down,  you start to feel lost and confused and probably don’t even know why.

It is similar to when you are watching TV and the connection isn’t working well, so you start to get static and unable to see the full picture ~ so what is happening here?

“You have lost the connection, just as layers of pain within you have caused you to lose the connection to YOU.”

healing your pain through connection

You are wondering around in a fog, probably unable to think clearly or make decisions in your life.  And it’s no wonder, who could with a faulty connection, connection to your true self, your inner self and your higher self.  They are all YOU and they are all ready and willing to assist you, once you connect back in.

Connecting back in means saying NO to the outside world, to all those tasks that you have taken on, feeling like that will help you to find your way.  Others will know better than me……I bet that thought has crossed your mind more than once.

Guess what……….no one and I mean no one knows you better than YOU, no other person here on Earth can give you what you are looking for.  That sense of connection, understanding and acceptance can only come from one place.  Yep you guessed it, YOU.

I hear you yelling, how do I do that?

Don’t worry I have your back, you know that person that is at the bottom of the pile, yep she is going to cut the line and come to the front, yes there will be some looks and maybe comments like “Hey what do you think you are doing?”.

Your response will be “Oh me, I’m putting myself first”  they may not like it at first, but as you start to value YOU, so will they.

Let’s talk about what that looks like, how do you put yourself first?  I want you to think about something that you would love to be able to do for yourself, but never have because you have allowed others needs to come first.  It can be something small like “I would love to sit and drink my coffee, instead of chugging it down as I’m running out the door”.

This is where we start, we start with just a small action that is going to show both yourself and others around you, that you matter and you value yourself and your time.

Each week, I want you to add another act that is just for you and before you know it, you will be treating yourself with the kindness that you have showed everyone else for so long.

You know the magic of this act of kindness, others will start to treat you with the same kindness, you have 1. shown them for so long and 2. you are now showing yourself.

Healing your pain

What I have learned in my own healing journey is your subconscious mind (the part of your brain that is like a super computer and stores each and every moment of your life) will only bring experiences forward that need healing when you are ready.

The great way to show you are ready, is by showing yourself love and kindness.  This alerts your subconscious mind that you are ready and willing to spend the time on healing your pain and bit by bit it will bring forward parts of you that need healing.

As you start to heal these parts of you, they then become your POWER, your Launching Pad to move forward and no longer allow your pain to dictate your life.

I offer 1-1 online sessions to support you on your healing journey, click here to book your complimentary session and learn how I can support you.